In this new year of my life, I’m embracing the purge. Purging what no longer fits, heals, helps, or loves me. Honestly, that’s the mission—continuing to cut out the noise and leaning into what brings peace, purpose, and presence.
My birthday always gives me a chance to pause and reflect, and each year, I get to know myself a little better. Lately, I’ve realized that my lack of desire for attention isn’t about avoiding the spotlight, but about craving a different kind of attention—something more intimate and meaningful. The type of attention that says, "I’ve been listening to you," and that acknowledges how I move through life. Not like a weirdo, but with an intention that makes me feel truly seen.
In this new year of my life, I want to continue exploring curiosities and nurturing my desires to embrace experiences that challenge me to become a better version of myself. There’s something so fulfilling about stepping outside my comfort zone and allowing new opportunities to shape and grow me. Whether it’s learning new skills, deepening personal connections, or stepping into spaces I once feared, my goal is to welcome these experiences with open arms.
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Another goal of mine this year is to shine the light on myself more often so I can get used to the feeling of receiving appreciation, a helping hand, and more love. I’ve been intentionally looking in the mirror longer, taking time to whisper moments of gratitude that keep getting louder with each day. Whether I’m taking a self-portrait in Mexico City or hitting up Valerie or GalleryRetail for some updated portraits, you’ll definitely catch me in front of the camera a lot more this year. I'll continue to cheer myself on out loud after I've accomplished tasks for Captured Canvas, like scheduling emails for the week—"You killin’ it, boo!" It’s a small celebration, but one that fills me with pride.
I’m also working on giving and receiving more words of encouragement, reminding myself and others, "Keep doing your best." Allowing these behaviors to be the new norm is part of my self-love journey—embracing the support, the love, and the light that I deserve. It’s a beautiful, yet sometimes challenging, shift. But I’m learning to accept and appreciate these moments, knowing they’re just as important as the ones I share with others.
I want to be intentional about saying 'yes' to the things that align with my journey and 'no' to what no longer serves me. This balance between exploration and discernment is key to my growth this year. It’s about being courageous enough to pursue what fuels my spirit while being wise enough to protect my peace.
So, as I continue this personal journey of shedding old layers and discovering new ones, I want to invite you all into this space. This blog is part of that process—an invitation to those who fit, who heal, who help, and who love. If you’re that person, you’re welcome to stay.
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